Dating and Breaking Up for The Right Reasons

Break-Up! It will be surprising to hear that am not used to this word neither have I ever been in a situation where I had to break-up with any of my partners. This has helped me avoid the sickness called “HURT” which accompanies breaking-up with ones partner.
How possible is this?
Why do you go into a relationship you know will lead to a break-up?
Many a times we inflict so much pain to ourselves without being aware that we are doing it.
What do I mean when I say this?
No one has ever gained going into a relationship for the wrong or negative reason (i.e. money, sex, fame, security and jealousy). Anyone who goes into a relationship for the wrong reasons will definitely break-up for the right reasons.
So why don’t you try going into a relationship for the best of reasons so that you remain in love with your partner or better still even if the inevitable has to happen it will be for the right reasons.

A good friend of mine once said; “relationships are like contracts, having memorandums of understanding outline the dos and don’ts guiding the two persons.”

This simply means that every relationship have guiding rules that make the two people involved in it remain in love only when there is understanding and no one goes contrary. These rules help you know what you are going into, they can only be discovered at the early stage when both of you are getting to know each other.
You try to know what she likes and what she doesn’t like this helps you know if you can cope with him/her, knowing full well that you cant cope and you agree to go further poses a serious threat.

The Heart is very delicate and should not be toyed with like a child’s play thing, so try going dating for the right reasons. It helps because that’s the only way to avoid throwing your love away.