HE AND SHE

He (On SEX)
a. He love it when she is clean and looking sexy
b. He loves it when she appreciates all the effort taken to make her happy.
c. He loves it when she takes the bull by the horn.
(i.e. goes full throttle and not just lay on her back)
d. He loves it when she introduces new ideas
e. Finally, he loves it when she comes before he climaxes.

She (On SEX)
a. She loves it when he is big, strong and lasts long.
b. She loves it when he looks neat and gorgeous.
c. She loves it when he takes charge and also gives her room to be naughty.
d. She loves it when he appreciates her after.
e. She loves to be dominant, making him climax before her.

He (On MARRIAGE)
a. He wants a hardworking, calculative and trustworthy lady.
b. He also wants a career lady, a goal getter with dreams.
c. He wants a mother figure because we all love our own mothers because of the way they nurtured us.
d. He wants someone good in prayers, better in the kitchen and best in bed.
e. Finally, he wants a pretty lady with a kid heart.

She (On MARRIAGE)
a. She wants a hardworking, self reliant and honest guy.
b. She also wants an established man who can make decisions on his own, not a mummy’s boy.
c. She wants a father figure, with good characters because she would like her boys to have same in future.
d. She wants a Guardian and Partner.
e. She wants him to be as good as a sex instructor, she doesn’t want a lazy man, and a passionless marriage is as good as being single.

He (On FAMILY)
a. He won’t mind if family members come for visits, hope you have sisters too.
b. He has his own family too so please take care of yours.
c. He likes your mother at the initial stage than later.
d. He is never visibly aggressive to them, instead stores their bad deeds in mind waiting for a chance to table them.
e. He is more close to your brothers if they are of the same age group or share the same ideologies.

She (On FAMILY)
a. Please mother leave your son his mine now
b. She is closer to the fathers than the mothers.
c. She won’t mind if others come visiting often, but not your sisters or mother.
d. She tends to get closer to your sisters before marriage; they can also give her a pass mark if they like her.
e. She won’t spend her money on your younger ones easily.

He (On MONEY)
a. Its our money, let’s spend it together.
b. I need to get a better job, my current one is not good enough for my wife, children and i.
c. He never keeps record of her earnings. I trust her.

She (On MONEY)
a. It’s our money; I will keep half while we send the other half.
b. I don’t need a better job, he is capable.
c. She keeps record of his earnings; it helps to set a budget for the home.

This information has be curled from documented interviews from 2000 men and women each in 26 countries from four continents. So we assume it to be right as a higher majority carries the vote.

The Relationship Chart.

take a look at my Family tree chart and know what connection you have or will have with one of your relations in the nearest future.
Its very simple to understand.

Dating and Breaking Up for The Right Reasons

Break-Up! It will be surprising to hear that am not used to this word neither have I ever been in a situation where I had to break-up with any of my partners. This has helped me avoid the sickness called “HURT” which accompanies breaking-up with ones partner.
How possible is this?
Why do you go into a relationship you know will lead to a break-up?
Many a times we inflict so much pain to ourselves without being aware that we are doing it.
What do I mean when I say this?
No one has ever gained going into a relationship for the wrong or negative reason (i.e. money, sex, fame, security and jealousy). Anyone who goes into a relationship for the wrong reasons will definitely break-up for the right reasons.
So why don’t you try going into a relationship for the best of reasons so that you remain in love with your partner or better still even if the inevitable has to happen it will be for the right reasons.

A good friend of mine once said; “relationships are like contracts, having memorandums of understanding outline the dos and don’ts guiding the two persons.”

This simply means that every relationship have guiding rules that make the two people involved in it remain in love only when there is understanding and no one goes contrary. These rules help you know what you are going into, they can only be discovered at the early stage when both of you are getting to know each other.
You try to know what she likes and what she doesn’t like this helps you know if you can cope with him/her, knowing full well that you cant cope and you agree to go further poses a serious threat.

The Heart is very delicate and should not be toyed with like a child’s play thing, so try going dating for the right reasons. It helps because that’s the only way to avoid throwing your love away.